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Death
Oct 5, 2005 13:47:13 GMT -5
Post by KuroRyuuReika on Oct 5, 2005 13:47:13 GMT -5
How do you guys deal with the passing of someone you care about? My grandmother died October 1st and my life's now going crazy. I'm emotionally constipated (quote from Cat) and can't feel anything. So I was wondering how you guys deal with it, 'cause my way of dealing with it isn't healthy and making me wishing I wasn't alive.
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Death
Oct 5, 2005 14:18:50 GMT -5
Post by BloodRose on Oct 5, 2005 14:18:50 GMT -5
well...i cry a lot, normally. a REAL lot actually. n then i start thinking about all the sucky shit in this world that my dead loved one, nana, grampa punk, aunt shelley, papa, etc... wont hafta deal w/ nemore. that they have no more pain n all suffering is pretty obsolite 4 them. thats how i deal w/ it. plus ill see em again soon.... but i cry a lot b4 that n a little bit after 2. sides i also member all the fun we had 2gether n think about how my loved one would smack me upside the head, make fun of me or plain scold me 4 not getting on with my life. after all, they had their hopes 4 my life, n id hate 2 let them down. then id cry sum more n eventually get over it... kinda. u never really get over it but it does heal, sumtimes i still cry. but thas jus how i am.... dont tell no1 tho. i hope that helps. u might wind up w/ less crying but we all no how emotional i can b... maybe a lil over so?
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Death
Oct 5, 2005 14:29:15 GMT -5
Post by KuroRyuuReika on Oct 5, 2005 14:29:15 GMT -5
*sighs* I don't cry. -_-
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Death
Oct 5, 2005 14:32:46 GMT -5
Post by BloodRose on Oct 5, 2005 14:32:46 GMT -5
i saw u cry at least twice.... neways, at least think about the other stuff.
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Death
Oct 6, 2005 11:54:35 GMT -5
Post by yoazzizgrazz on Oct 6, 2005 11:54:35 GMT -5
death hits hard, no one can escape that. but for in eternal life is the only way to find a place were nothing evil may happen. and until that plane opens to us, whether by the apacolypse, or our own death, we must take all in stride, and do what we can to cope
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Death
Oct 6, 2005 11:55:23 GMT -5
Post by yoazzizgrazz on Oct 6, 2005 11:55:23 GMT -5
and dont forget that i'm in on that death too
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Death
Oct 8, 2005 8:05:13 GMT -5
Post by KuroRyuuReika on Oct 8, 2005 8:05:13 GMT -5
Yeah, I know.
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Death
Oct 15, 2005 13:49:42 GMT -5
Post by dragonfly on Oct 15, 2005 13:49:42 GMT -5
Ive lost both of my grandparents on my mom's side of the family. I didnt know the ones on my dad's side that much. I also lost my great great grandma too. If i lose some1 that important to me i like to take a long walk to have some alone time. I try to remember the good times abt that person as well.
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Death
Oct 15, 2005 16:03:35 GMT -5
Post by KuroRyuuReika on Oct 15, 2005 16:03:35 GMT -5
What sux is that you ppl aren't me. I would take the long walk, if my dad wouldn't make me spend so much time w/ the family. >_<
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Death
Oct 16, 2005 12:41:21 GMT -5
Post by yoazzizgrazz on Oct 16, 2005 12:41:21 GMT -5
and belive me, her dad is VERY PERSWASIVE (if you know what i mean)
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Death
Oct 16, 2005 19:42:09 GMT -5
Post by KuroRyuuReika on Oct 16, 2005 19:42:09 GMT -5
*cough* Well, I think we get that picture >> .........
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Death
Oct 19, 2005 13:14:18 GMT -5
Post by dragonfly on Oct 19, 2005 13:14:18 GMT -5
Yea.
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Death
Oct 20, 2005 11:44:24 GMT -5
Post by yoazzizgrazz on Oct 20, 2005 11:44:24 GMT -5
okay, hey, you know her dad is the topic of about five boards right now right?
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Death
Oct 21, 2005 5:37:24 GMT -5
Post by KuroRyuuReika on Oct 21, 2005 5:37:24 GMT -5
He's easy to talk about behind his back. But if he finds out x.x
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Death
Oct 21, 2005 11:49:10 GMT -5
Post by yoazzizgrazz on Oct 21, 2005 11:49:10 GMT -5
yeah, you'd be minced meat...
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